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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 9.3.21

కథం మతిస్తేఽవగతాన్యథా సతాం కులప్రసూతే కులదూషణం త్విదమ్ । బిభర్షి జారం యదపత్రపా కులం పితుశ్చ భర్తుశ్చ నయస్యధస్తమ: ॥ ౨౧ ॥
kathaṁ matis te ’vagatānyathā satāṁ
[katham matis te ’vagataanyathaa sataam]
kula-prasūte kula-dūṣaṇaṁ tv idam
[kula-prasoote kula-dooshanam tv idam]
bibharṣi jāraṁ yad apatrapā kulaṁ
[bibharshi jaaram yad apatrapaa kulam]
pituś ca bhartuś ca nayasy adhas tamaḥ
[pitush cha bhartush cha nayasy adhas tamah]
katham — how matiḥ te — your consciousness avagatā — has gone down anyathā — otherwise satām — of the most respectable kula-prasūte — O my daughter, born in the family kula-dūṣaṇam — who are the degradation of the family tu — but idam — this bibharṣi — you are maintaining jāram — a paramour yat — as it is apatrapā — without shame kulam — the dynasty pituḥ — of your father ca — and bhartuḥ — of your husband ca — and nayasi — you are bringing down adhaḥ tamaḥ — downward into darkness or hell.
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
kathaṁ matis te ’vagatānyathā satāṁ
katham
how
matiḥ te
your consciousness
avagatā
has gone down
anyathā
otherwise
satām
of the most respectable
kula-prasūte kula-dūṣaṇaṁ tv idam
kula-prasūte
O my daughter, born in the family
kula-dūṣaṇam
who are the degradation of the family
bibharṣi jāraṁ yad apatrapā kulaṁ
pituś ca bhartuś ca nayasy adhas tamaḥ
tu
but
idam
this
bibharṣi
you are maintaining
jāram
a paramour
yat
as it is
apatrapā
without shame
kulam
the dynasty
pituḥ
of your father
ca
and
bhartuḥ
of your husband
ca
and
nayasi
you are bringing down
adhaḥ tamaḥ
downward into darkness or hell.
O my daughter, who were born in a respectable family, how have you degraded your consciousness in this way? How is it that you are shamelessly maintaining a paramour? You will thus degrade the dynasties of both your father and your husband to hellish life.

It is quite clear that according to Vedic culture a woman who accepts a paramour or second husband in the presence of the husband she has married is certainly responsible for the degradation of her father’s family and the family of her husband. The rules of Vedic culture in this regard are strictly observed in the respectable families of brāhmaṇas, kṣatriyas and vaiśyas even today; only the śūdras are degraded in this matter. For a woman of the brāhmaṇa, kṣatriya or vaiśya class to accept another husband in the presence of the husband she has married, or to file for divorce or accept a boyfriend or paramour, is unacceptable in the Vedic culture. Therefore King Śaryāti, who did not know the real facts of Cyavana Muni’s transformation, was surprised to see the behavior of his daughter.

— A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
O my daughter, born in a respectable family! How have you degraded your consciousness in this way? Since you are shamelessly maintaining a paramour, you will lead the dynasties of both your father and your husband to hellish life. O woman born in a pure family! How has your mind become deviated and degraded? You are without shame (apatrapā). You lead our families to hell.
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