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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 3.30.9

గృహేషు కూటధర్మేషు దు:ఖతన్త్రేష్వతన్ద్రిత: । కుర్వన్దు:ఖప్రతీకారం సుఖవన్మన్యతే గృహీ ॥ ౯ ॥
gṛheṣu kūṭa-dharmeṣu
[griheshu koota-dharmeshu]
duḥkha-tantreṣv atandritaḥ
[duhkha-tantreshv atandritah]
kurvan duḥkha-pratīkāraṁ
[kurvan duhkha-prateekaaram]
sukhavan manyate gṛhī
[sukhavan manyate grihee]
gṛheṣu — in family life kūṭa-dharmeṣu — involving the practice of falsehood duḥkha-tantreṣu — spreading miseries atandritaḥ — attentive kurvan — doing duḥkha-pratīkāram — counteraction of miseries sukha-vat — as happiness manyate — thinks gṛhī — the householder.
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
gṛheṣu kūṭa-dharmeṣu
gṛheṣu
in family life
kūṭa-dharmeṣu
involving the practice of falsehood
duḥkha-tantreṣv atandritaḥ
duḥkha-tantreṣu
spreading miseries
atandritaḥ
attentive
kurvan duḥkha-pratīkāraṁ
kurvan
doing
duḥkha-pratīkāram
counteraction of miseries
sukhavan manyate gṛhī
sukha-vat
as happiness
manyate
thinks
gṛhī
the householder.
The attached householder remains in his family life, which is full of diplomacy and politics. Always spreading miseries and controlled by acts of sense gratification, he acts just to counteract the reactions of all his miseries, and if he can successfully counteract such miseries, he thinks that he is happy.

In Bhagavad-gītā the Personality of Godhead Himself certifies the material world as an impermanent place that is full of miseries. There is no question of happiness in this material world, either individually or in terms of family, society or country. If something is going on in the name of happiness, that is also illusion. Here in this material world, happiness means successful counteraction to the effects of distress. The material world is so made that unless one becomes a clever diplomat, his life will be a failure. Not to speak of human society, even the society of lower animals, the birds and bees, cleverly manages its bodily demands of eating, sleeping and mating. Human society competes nationally or individually, and in the attempt to be successful the entire human society becomes full of diplomacy. We should always remember that in spite of all diplomacy and all intelligence in the struggle for our existence, everything will end in a second by the supreme will. Therefore, all our attempts to become happy in this material world are simply a delusion offered by māyā.

— A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
Attentive to family life predominated by suffering, with practices of cheating for gaining wealth, he thinks happiness is counteracting the suffering. Kūṭa-dharmeṣu means “having practices filled with cheating for wealth.” These family affairs predominantly give misery (duḥkha-tantreṣu).
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