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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 3.22.14

అహం త్వాశ‍ృణవం విద్వన్ వివాహార్థం సముద్యతమ్ । అతస్త్వముపకుర్వాణ: ప్రత్తాం ప్రతిగృహాణ మే ॥ ౧౪ ॥
ahaṁ tvāśṛṇavaṁ vidvan
[aham tvaashrinavam vidvan]
vivāhārthaṁ samudyatam
[vivaahaartham samudyatam]
atas tvam upakurvāṇaḥ
[atas tvam upakurvaanah]
prattāṁ pratigṛhāṇa me
[prattaam pratigrihaana me]
aham — I tvā — you aśṛṇavam — heard vidvan — O wise man vivāha-artham — for the sake of marriage samudyatam — prepared ataḥ — hence tvam — you upakurvāṇaḥ — not taken a vow of perpetual celibacy prattām — offered pratigṛhāṇa — please accept me — of me.
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
ahaṁ tvāśṛṇavaṁ vidvan
aham
I
tvā
you
aśṛṇavam
heard
vidvan
O wise man
vivāhārthaṁ samudyatam
vivāha-artham
for the sake of marriage
samudyatam
prepared
atas tvam upakurvāṇaḥ
ataḥ
hence
tvam
you
upakurvāṇaḥ
not taken a vow of perpetual celibacy
prattāṁ pratigṛhāṇa me
prattām
offered
pratigṛhāṇa
please accept
me
of me.
Svāyambhuva Manu continued: O wise man, I heard that you were prepared to marry. Please accept her hand, which is being offered to you by me, since you have not taken a vow of perpetual celibacy.

The principle of brahmacarya is celibacy. There are two kinds of brahmacārīs. One is called naiṣṭhika-brahmacārī, which means one who takes a vow of celibacy for his whole life, whereas the other, the upakurvāṇa-brahmacārī, is a brahmacārī who takes the vow of celibacy up to a certain age. For example, he may take the vow to remain celibate up to twenty-five years of age; then, with the permission of his spiritual master, he enters married life. Brahmacarya is student life, the beginning of life in the spiritual orders, and the principle of brahmacarya is celibacy. Only a householder can indulge in sense gratification or sex life, not a brahmacārī. Svāyambhuva Manu requested Kardama Muni to accept his daughter, since Kardama had not taken the vow of naiṣṭhika-brahmacarya. He was willing to marry, and the suitable daughter of a high royal family was presented.

— A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
O learned one! I have heard that you are prepared to get married. Being celibate up till this point, please accept the daughter I offer. “How did you know the desire in my mind?” Do not ask about knowing. I have even heard this. I have heard this from the mouth of the Supreme Lord who appeared before me. Upakurvāṇaḥ is a person who has been celibate up till this point, but can get married. Prattām me means “given by me.”
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