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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 10.47.35

యథా దూరచరే ప్రేష్ఠే మన ఆవిశ్య వర్తతే । స్‍త్రీణాం చ న తథా చేత: సన్నికృష్టేఽక్షిగోచరే ॥ ౩౫ ॥
yathā dūra-care preṣṭhe
[yathaa doora-chare preshthe]
mana āviśya vartate
[mana aavishya vartate]
strīṇāṁ ca na tathā cetaḥ
[streenaam cha na tathaa chetah]
sannikṛṣṭe ’kṣi-gocare
[sannikrishte ’kshi-gochare]
yathā — as dūra - care — being situated far away preṣṭhe — a lover manaḥ — the minds āviśya — becoming absorbed vartate — remain strīṇām — of women ca — and na — not tathā — so cetaḥ — their minds sannikṛṣṭe — when he is near akṣi - gocare — present before their eyes .
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
yathā dūra-care preṣṭhe
yathā
as
dūra - care
being situated far away
preṣṭhe
a lover
mana āviśya vartate
manaḥ
the minds
āviśya
becoming absorbed
vartate
remain
strīṇāṁ ca na tathā cetaḥ
strīṇām
of women
ca
and
na
not
tathā
so
cetaḥ
their minds
sannikṛṣṭe ’kṣi-gocare
sannikṛṣṭe
when he is near
akṣi - gocare
present before their eyes .
  • dūra-care preṣṭhe — when the lover is far away
    Compound: dūra (distant) + care (moving) + preṣṭhe (most dear). The locative absolute: 'the dearest one being far.' Vipralambha's grammatical signature in the Bhāgavatam.
  • manaḥ āviśya — the mind becoming absorbed
    Compound: manaḥ + ā + √viś (to enter). Āveśa — the mind entering the beloved. Gauḍīyas read āveśa as the operative state of mādhurya-meditation, distinct from yogic samādhi.
  • akṣi-gocare — present before the eyes
    Compound: akṣi (eye) + gocare (in the range of). When the lover is in eye-range, the mind disperses. The paradox: presence weakens absorption; absence sharpens it.
When her lover is far away, a woman thinks of him more than when he is present before her.

According to Śrīla Viśvanātha Cakravartī, the same holds true for men, who become more absorbed in thinking of a beloved woman when she is far away than when she is present before their eyes.

— A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
When her lover is far away, a woman thinks of him more than when he is present before her.
Commentary

This verse considers the relative importance of feeling with the heart and seeing with the eyes. Ca indicates that this example holds good for men as well as women. The heart becomes more absorbed in the beloved when the beloved is far away, than when the loved one is present and within sight.

Jīva Gosvāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

“Let that be. Your love is perfect. What about us?” Your love is greater than mine. With that desire he speaks this verse. Even ordinary women think of their lovers in their absence. What to speak of you gopīs. The word ca indicates not just women but everyone. You should therefore forgive my whimsy which is difficult to restrain since it arises from the desire to increase our love for each other.

Śrīdhara Svāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

He explains how this will be accomplished. Just as when even (api) a man who loves women is far away, his mind becomes absorbed in women (āviśya vartate), so the mind of women also becomes absorbed in the man.

Related values
Anahankarah (Freedom from False Ego)Prema (Divine Love)Kshama (Forgiveness / Patience)
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Concepts
Jiva

A woman thinks more of her lover when he is far away than when he is in front of her. Kṛṣṇa explains His logic — proximity diffuses focus, distance concentrates it. Gauḍīyas note the line as one of the Bhāgavatam's clearest defenses of vipralambha as the higher rasa.

Mahāprabhu at the Gambhīrā

In His last twelve years at Jagannātha Purī, Mahāprabhu lived in the Gambhīrā in continuous viraha — tasting the gopīs' separation-mood from Kṛṣṇa. Caitanya-caritāmṛta describes Him weeping, dashing His face against the walls, His body lengthening and shortening — the symptoms of mahā-bhāva.

Gauḍīyas read this verse as the explicit doctrinal warrant for what Mahāprabhu performs: the lover's mind, when the beloved is far, is more absorbed than in any union.

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