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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 10.1.37

శ్రీవసుదేవ ఉవాచ శ్లాఘనీయగుణ: శూరైర్భవాన్ భోజయశస్కర: । స కథం భగినీం హన్యాత్ స్త్రియముద్వాహపర్వణి ॥ ౩౭ ॥
śrī-vasudeva uvāca
[shree-vasudeva uvaacha]
ślāghanīya-guṇaḥ śūrair
[shlaaghaneeya-gunah shoorair]
bhavān bhoja-yaśaskaraḥ
[bhavaan bhoja-yashaskarah]
sa kathaṁ bhaginīṁ hanyāt
[sa katham bhagineem hanyaat]
striyam udvāha-parvaṇi
[striyam udvaaha-parvani]
śrī - vasudevaḥ uvāca — the great personality Vasudeva said ślāghanīya - guṇaḥ — a person who possesses praiseworthy qualities śūraiḥ — by great heroes bhavān — your good self bhoja - yaśaḥ - karaḥ — a brilliant star in the Bhoja dynasty saḥ — one such as your good self katham — how bhaginīm — your sister hanyāt — can kill striyam — especially a woman udvāha - parvaṇi — at the time of the marriage ceremony .
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
śrī-vasudeva uvāca
śrī - vasudevaḥ uvāca
the great personality Vasudeva said
ślāghanīya-guṇaḥ śūrair
ślāghanīya - guṇaḥ
a person who possesses praiseworthy qualities
śūraiḥ
by great heroes
bhavān bhoja-yaśaskaraḥ
bhavān
your good self
bhoja - yaśaḥ - karaḥ
a brilliant star in the Bhoja dynasty
saḥ
one such as your good self
katham
how
sa kathaṁ bhaginīṁ hanyāt
bhaginīm
your sister
hanyāt
can kill
striyam udvāha-parvaṇi
striyam
especially a woman
udvāha - parvaṇi
at the time of the marriage ceremony .
  • ślāghanīya-guṇaḥ — a person who possesses praiseworthy qualities
    Ślāghanīya (praiseworthy) + guṇa (quality). Vasudeva names Kaṁsa's reputation — knowing it is overstated, but using it as a mirror. Sometimes the right mirror is not the accurate one but the one a man could grow into.
  • bhoja-yaśaḥ-karaḥ — a brilliant star in the Bhoja dynasty
    Bhoja (dynasty) + yaśas (fame) + kara (maker). Vasudeva offers Kaṁsa his dynastic identity: 'You are the Bhojas' fame-maker.' He is reminding Kaṁsa of a vaṁśa-responsibility just as Parīkṣit recalled the Yadu and Soma vaṁśas in verse 1. Vaṁśa as ethical claim.
  • bhaginīm — your sister
    Bhaginī = sister. The relational word, used to maximum effect: Vasudeva says she is your sister. Asuric violence requires the de-personalization of the victim; dharma re-personalizes her, naming the relation that the violence would dissolve.
  • striyam — especially a woman
    Strī = woman. The double-strike: she is your sister, and she is a woman. Śāstra (Manu, Vasiṣṭha) is explicit on strī-vadha (killing a woman) as among the gravest sins. Vasudeva names the dharmic category Kaṁsa is about to violate.
  • udvāha-parvaṇi — at the time of the marriage ceremony
    Udvāha (marriage) + parvan (festival, juncture). The triple-strike: at the very wedding. Time of act compounds the offense — śāstra treats the wedding hour as especially sacred. Vasudeva is building, in three words, an unanswerable dharmic case.
Vasudeva said: My dear brother-in-law Kaṁsa, you are the pride of your family, the Bhoja dynasty, and great heroes praise your qualities. How could such a qualified person as you kill a woman, your own sister, especially on the occasion of her marriage?

According to Vedic principles, a brāhmaṇa, an old man, a woman, a child or a cow cannot be killed under any circumstances. Vasudeva stressed that Devakī was not only a woman but a member of Kaṁsa’s family. Because she was now married to Vasudeva, she was para-strī, another man’s wife, and if such a woman were killed, not only would Kaṁsa be implicated in sinful activities, but his reputation as king of the Bhoja dynasty would be damaged. Thus Vasudeva tried in many ways to convince Kaṁsa in order to stop him from killing Devakī.

— A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
Vasudeva said: My dear brother-in-law Kaṁsa, you are the pride of your family, the Bhoja dynasty, and great heroes praise your qualities. How could such a qualified person as you kill a woman, your own sister, especially on the occasion of her marriage?
Commentary

Vasudeva used strategy of sama, or kind words: invoking relationship, personal gain, helping others, creating dissension and glorification of qualities. Slaghaniya gunah (one of praiseworthy qualities) glorifies his qualities. "bhoja yasaskrah" invokes family relationship. Mentioning "bhagini," his sister, invoking fear and doubt, is the use of dissensions or bheda. "How can you kill" indicates gain and helping others. Though she bears your killer, not killing her because she is a woman will bring a gain of fame. Saving her life is helping others. She is a defenseless woman, your sister, and it will happen during her wedding. And you are a famous person. Killing her now will bring infamy in this life, and hell in the next life. Thus Vasudeva indicates two types of bheda, problems in this life and next. The real intent of the words can be understood by taking opposite meanings. Saying he has praiseworthy qualities actually indicates that he does not have those qualities. In the bhoja dynasty he is famous for causing problems. By killing his sister, his dynasty will be destroyed.

Jīva Gosvāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

First Vasudeva tries to enlighten Kaṁsa by sāma. He uses the word bhavān out of respect. Why would you, so honorable, kill a woman, your sister, on the occasion of her marriage? You should not kill her. If you do so, the reputation of your courage will be destroyed. By saying that Kaṁsa has praiseworthy fame, he glorifies Kaṁsa’ṣ qualities. By mentioning the Bhoja dynasty he uses relationship. By mentioning his sister, he uses identity. Why should you kill her? By giving up killing her you will gain fame. It is her wedding day. By sparing her you help increase the offspring. Another meaning of the phrase ślāghanīya-guṇaḥ śūraiḥ is “you are much inferior or secondary (guṇaḥ) to the praiseworthy warriors.” The Bhojas are fortunate among the Yadus, but people say that among them there is one person who is most sinful. Why should he who creates fame in this way to them kill only his sister? He should kill his whole dynasty.

Related values
Nishkama Karma (Selfless Action)Tejas (Inner Radiance / Vigour)Titiksha (Forbearance / Endurance)Achapalya (Steadiness / Non-fickleness)Anahankarah (Freedom from False Ego)Adambhitva (Non-hypocrisy / Authenticity)Discriminative Wisdom
Related verses
True heroism, in Kṛṣṇa's world, is restraint — a sūra protects women, kin, and the helpless; killing them, even when fearful, destroys both dharma and yaśas.
Practical Applications
  • Notice today where your fear of an outcome is tempting you to harm someone weaker or dependent on you, and refuse that move outright.
  • Speak to one family member you have been quietly resenting and protect them in word and deed, especially if they are a woman, child, or elder.
  • When provoked, appeal to the other person's higher self as Vasudeva did with Kaṁsa — name their good qualities aloud rather than answering their cruelty in kind.
Reflection Questions
  • Where in my own life have I been so consumed by a perceived threat that I, like Kaṁsa, am ready to harm those whom dharma forbids me to touch — a family member, a dependent, someone weaker — and what reasoned appeal of a 'Vasudeva' am I refusing to hear?
  • When I must restrain a powerful person from a wrong act, do I actually appeal — as Vasudeva did — to the noble qualities they already possess (their reputation, their lineage, their ślāghanīya-guṇa), or do I default to threats, moralizing, or silence?
For Each Age Group
youth
  • When a friend group is about to do something cruel — pile on someone in a group chat, mock a classmate, post something that will hurt — be the Vasudeva in the moment. Don't lecture; appeal to what they actually care about ('this isn't who we are,' 'you're better than this screenshot lasting forever'). Buy the thirty seconds it takes for the impulse to pass.
  • Notice where you use 'just joking' or social pressure to push someone smaller — a younger sibling, a quieter classmate, someone outside your group. The Vedic protection of the weaker is not old-fashioned; it is the line between tejas and cruelty. Pick one person this week you have been quietly diminishing, and stop.
  • Under exam stress or a breakup, you will want to lash out — at parents, a roommate, online strangers. Practice dhairya: one full breath before you reply, one walk around the block before you send. Vasudeva spoke to a sword-wielder without losing composure; you can survive a group chat.
householder
  • In the next hard conversation with your spouse, your boss, or a relative, refuse two temptations: the temptation to win and the temptation to flee. Speak like Vasudeva — name what the other person actually values, stay truthful, keep the tone calm. Measure success not by who 'wins' but by whether anyone was protected.
  • Audit how you speak about and to the women, children, and elders in your household — especially when tired, late, or under money stress. The verse's protections are not abstract; they live in tone of voice at 9pm on a Tuesday. One week: no raised voice at a child or elder, no contempt at a spouse. Notice what it costs you and what it returns.
  • When someone in your extended family or workplace is heading toward a destructive decision — a reckless purchase, a cruel firing, cutting off a relative — try Vasudeva's approach before walking away. Appeal to their stated values, their reputation, the long view. You may not stop them, but you will have done your sva-dharma, and the fruit belongs to Kṛṣṇa.
senior
  • Use your standing to protect. At this stage your words carry weight that a younger person's do not. When you see a grandchild being shamed, a daughter-in-law being talked over, an elderly neighbor being dismissed, speak — calmly, briefly, like Vasudeva. This is the legacy that outlasts the estate.
  • Practice tyāga with the grievances you have carried for decades — the brother who wronged you, the colleague who passed you over, the child who disappointed you. Vasudeva pleaded for the life of the man who would imprison him for years. You are not asked to forget; you are asked to release the verdict to Kṛṣṇa and free your remaining time.
  • Mentor one younger person specifically in dhairya — composure under provocation. Not by lecturing, but by letting them watch how you handle a rude clerk, a frustrating doctor, a slow line. At sixty-plus, your nervous system is the teaching. Make it worth watching.
Common Pitfalls
  • Mistaking Vasudeva's diplomatic praise of Kaṁsa as flattery or compromise with evil — and concluding that a devotee should simply confront wrongdoers bluntly, ignoring that saintly speech skillfully invokes dharma, kinship, and reputation to protect the innocent.
  • Reading the Vedic protection of women, brāhmaṇas, elders, children, and cows as merely a cultural relic, instead of recognizing it as an enduring standard by which I must measure my own conduct — including subtle violences of speech, neglect, and indifference within my own household.
  • Identifying with Vasudeva's composure as a posture of detachment while privately harboring Kaṁsa-like impulses — using 'spiritual equanimity' to mask the fact that I have not actually surrendered my fear, envy, or self-preservation to Kṛṣṇa.
Discussion Prompts
  • Vasudeva appeals to Kaṁsa's reputation and family pride to stop a murder — was this a noble use of skillful speech or a compromise that flattered a tyrant? Where in your own life have you used flattery 'for a good cause,' and did it actually work?
  • Vedic principle protects the brāhmaṇa, the cow, the child, the elder, and the woman from violence under any circumstance. Modern ethics tends to argue case-by-case (just war, self-defense, capital punishment). Defend or challenge: are absolute protections wiser than situational ethics?
  • Vasudeva spoke calmly to a man holding a sword to his wife's throat on their wedding day. Is this dhairya, or is it the kind of accommodation with evil that allows evil to grow? Share a moment when you had to choose between confronting wrongdoing and negotiating with it.
Role Play

Two students play Vasudeva and Kaṁsa on the chariot, just after the prophecy is heard. Kaṁsa has drawn his sword. Vasudeva has roughly two minutes to speak before Kaṁsa acts. The Vasudeva-player must appeal only to what Kaṁsa actually values — his name, his lineage, his sense of heroism (ślāghanīya-guṇaḥ, śūraiḥ, bhoja-yaśaskaraḥ) — without lying, without abandoning satya, and without provoking him further. After two minutes, freeze the scene. The class then discusses: which appeals were truthful? Which were merely strategic? Where did Vasudeva-the-devotee end and Vasudeva-the-negotiator begin? Then swap roles and run it again.

Objections & Responses
  • Vasudeva's appeal is just patriarchal protection of women — 'don't kill her, she's a woman, she's family, it'll embarrass you.' Why not 'don't kill her because she's a person'? Isn't the Vedic frame morally backwards?
    The Vedic frame does see Devakī as a person — an eternal soul, in fact, which is a far stronger claim than modern personhood. But Vasudeva is not delivering an ethics lecture; he is buying seconds against a drawn sword. He uses every honest lever available: family bond, the wedding occasion, Kaṁsa's reputation, the protections owed to women. None of these contradict her personhood; they reinforce the specific reasons her killing would be uniquely abominable. A Gauḍīya teacher would add: protecting the categories the Vedas single out (brāhmaṇa, cow, child, elder, woman) is not because other beings don't matter, but because a society that violates these specific protections has already collapsed inwardly. Vasudeva is naming that collapse to a man on its edge.
  • If Vasudeva truly trusted Kṛṣṇa, why argue at all? Why not just stand silent in surrender and let providence unfold? His appeals look like a lack of faith.
    This is the same misreading Arjuna almost made — that surrender means inaction. Kṛṣṇa explicitly rejects it: you have a right to action, never to inaction. Vasudeva's sva-dharma in that moment was to protect his wife by every honest means; surrender meant doing that without anxiety about the outcome, not refusing to act. He spoke, he reasoned, he later offered to hand over every child — and through all of it, the result was Kṛṣṇa's. Real surrender looks like full effort with the fruit offered up, not paralysis dressed as piety. The dhīra acts; he simply does not claim to be the cause.

Vasudeva opens his appeal by praising Kaṁsa — 'great hero, pride of the Bhoja dynasty.' This is not flattery; it is dharmic clinical practice. Speak to a man's better self first, even if you know it is buried; remind him of who he is supposed to be before naming who he is becoming. The devotee uses speech the way a surgeon uses anesthesia — gently, before the cut.

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