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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 10.60.11

तान्प्राप्तानर्थिनो हित्वा चैद्यादीन् स्मरदुर्मदान् । दत्ता भ्रात्रा स्वपित्रा च कस्मान्नो ववृषेऽसमान् ॥ ११ ॥
tān prāptān arthino hitvā
[taan praaptaan arthino hitvaa]
caidyādīn smara-durmadān
[chaidyaadeen smara-durmadaan]
dattā bhrātrā sva-pitrā ca
[dattaa bhraatraa sva-pitraa cha]
kasmān no vavṛṣe ’samān
[kasmaan no vavrishe ’samaan]
tān — them prāptān — at hand arthinaḥ — suitors hitvā — rejecting caidya — Śiśupāla ādīn — and others smara — by Cupid darmadān — maddened dattā — given bhrātrā — by your brother sva — your pitrā — father ca — and kasmāt — why naḥ — Us vavṛṣe — you chose asamān — unequal .
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
tān prāptān arthino hitvā
tān
them
prāptān
at hand
arthinaḥ
suitors
hitvā
rejecting
caidyādīn smara-durmadān
caidya
Śiśupāla
ādīn
and others
smara
by Cupid
darmadān
maddened
dattā bhrātrā sva-pitrā ca
dattā
given
bhrātrā
by your brother
sva
your
pitrā
father
ca
and
kasmān no vavṛṣe ’samān
kasmāt
why
naḥ
Us
vavṛṣe
you chose
asamān
unequal .
  • caidya — Śiśupāla, the King of Cedi
    Rukmiṇī's intended husband by her brother's arrangement (SB 10.52–54). Mentioning him is a deliberate provocation — the man she fled from is the one He pretends she should have chosen.
Since your brother and father offered you to them, why did you reject the King of Cedi and all those other suitors, who stood before you, maddened by Cupid? Why, instead, did you choose Us, who are not at all your equal?
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
Since your brother and father offered you to them, why did you reject the King of Cedi and all those other suitors, who stood before you, maddened by Cupid? Why, instead, did you choose Us, who are not at all your equal?
Jīva Gosvāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

Why did you reject those who personally came (prāptān) and requested you (arthinaḥ) and who were moreover completely maddened by love? The word ca indicates this was most ridiculous. You were even given by your brother and father to Śiśupāla, though he is an object of laughter. The word sva indicates that the daughter was dependent on her father. Therefore you should not have rejected the kings. Why did you choose me, who cannot compare with them? The plural naḥ is used to indicate the singular. (Pāṇini 1.2.51) Or why did you choose persons like us, the Yādavas, as a husband. Perfect tense is used to indicate a completed action. If you had not yet chosen, I would have stopped you from this choice.

Related values
Anahankarah (Freedom from False Ego)Kshama (Forgiveness / Patience)Asteya (Non-stealing / Honesty)Aparigraha (Non-possessiveness)
Related verses
Since your brother and father offered you, why did you reject Cedi's king and others maddened by Cupid? Why choose Us, who are not your equal? The Lord teases by pretending He is not the obvious choice.
Reflection Questions
  • Where do you imagine Kṛṣṇa is not the obvious choice He clearly is?
  • How do you receive playful 'belittling' from those who love you?

A merchant who has bought the rarest jewel from a princess says, 'But there were sapphires and rubies offered — why this dull pebble?' The princess knows the jewel; the merchant is performing astonishment. Kṛṣṇa names Śiśupāla and Cupid-maddened suitors as if He cannot fathom her choice.

The rejected suitor — Śiśupāla at Rukmiṇī's wedding

In SB 10.52–54 Rukmiṇī writes her letter to Kṛṣṇa; her brother Rukmī has promised her to Śiśupāla of Cedi. On the appointed day Kṛṣṇa carries her off from the temple of Ambikā, defeats the assembled kings, and marries her in Dvārakā.

The present verse references that very episode — He is teasingly asking why she rejected Cedi-rāja and 'chose Us, who are not at all your equal.' The reader supplies the answer the queen has not yet uttered.

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