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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 10.60.47

नैवालीकमहं मन्ये वचस्ते मधुसूदन । अम्बाया एव हि प्राय: कन्याया: स्याद् रति: क्व‍‍चित् ॥ ४७ ॥
naivālīkam ahaṁ manye
[naivaaleekam aham manye]
vacas te madhusūdana
[vachas te madhusoodana]
ambāyā eva hi prāyaḥ
[ambaayaa eva hi praayah]
kanyāyāḥ syād ratiḥ kvacit
[kanyaayaah syaad ratih kvachit]
na — not eva — indeed alīkam — false aham — I manye — think vacaḥ — words te — Your madhu - sūdana — O killer of Madhu ambāyāḥ — of Ambā eva hi — certainly prāyaḥ — generally kanyāyāḥ — the maiden syāt — arose ratiḥ — attraction (to Śālva) kvacit — once .
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
naivālīkam ahaṁ manye
na
not
vacas te madhusūdana
ambāyā eva hi prāyaḥ
eva
indeed
alīkam
false
aham
I
manye
think
kanyāyāḥ syād ratiḥ kvacit
vacaḥ
words
te
Your
madhu - sūdana
O killer of Madhu
ambāyāḥ
of Ambā
eva hi
certainly
prāyaḥ
generally
kanyāyāḥ
the maiden
syāt
arose
ratiḥ
attraction (to Śālva)
kvacit
once .
  • alīkam — false
    From alīka — untrue. She denies that His words are alīka — a precise grammatical move. She is correcting His framing without rejecting His speech.
  • madhu-sūdana — O killer of Madhu
    Compound vocative: madhu (the demon Madhu) + sūdana (killer). His Mathurā-Dvārakā-line name — He killed the demon Madhu, ancestor of His own dynasty's enemies. She uses the name as she names a Mahābhārata episode — both rooted in His historical kṣatriya-līlā.
  • ambāyāḥ — of Ambā
    The Mahābhārata princess. Gauḍīyas treat citation of Mahābhārata episodes inside Bhāgavata-līlā as natural — both are Vyāsa's compositions. Rukmiṇī's reference is doctrinally seamless.
  • ratiḥ — attraction
    From √ram — to delight. Rati at this register is conjugal attraction — the lowest beat in the rasa-scale toward which He earlier accused her of being susceptible. She concedes the category exists; she does not place herself in it.
Actually, I don’t consider Your words false, Madhūsudana. Quite often an unmarried girl is attracted to a man, as in the case of Ambā.

Having refuted everything Lord Kṛṣṇa said, Śrīmatī Rukmiṇī, in a gracious frame of mind, now praises the truthfulness of His statements. In other words, she accepts that Lord Kṛṣṇa used her as an example to elucidate ordinary female psychology. The King of Kāśī had three daughters — Ambā, Ambālikā and Ambikā — and Ambā was attracted to Śālva. This story is narrated in the Mahābhārata.

— A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
Actually, I don't consider Your words false, Madhūsudana. Quite often an unmarried girl is attracted to a man, as in the case of Ambā.
Commentary

"Or you are teaching other men about the nature of women, taking me as an example since I am a woman. Thus your statements that I should marry a person of similar qualities I do not consider false. In this world sometimes a woman becomes attracted to some man before marriage. As an example, of the three daughters of king of Kasi, Ambika, Ambalika and Amba, Amba became attracted to Salva."

Jīva Gosvāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

Kṛṣṇa spoke in generally about women, without particulars. That was proper. She now concludes with two verses. I do not consider your words indicating women in general to be irrelevant because (hi) a young unmarried woman of good conduct (belonging to some father) will usually be attracted to a man. The example is Ambā.

Śrīdhara Svāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

O Lord, keeping your word in giving a boon to the great demon Madhu (madhusūdana)! Madhusūdana also means a bee. Like the bee, the Lord takes the nectar. Therefore I do not think your words are displeasing. The mind of a young girl like Ambā is very fixed, for generally she is attracted to a certain man. Another girl is attracted to another man.

Related values
Anahankarah (Freedom from False Ego)Apaishunam (Non-slander)Kshama (Forgiveness / Patience)Asteya (Non-stealing / Honesty)Aparigraha (Non-possessiveness)
Related verses
I don't consider Your words false, Madhūsudana; an unmarried girl is often attracted to a man, as with Ambā. Even mature wit acknowledges the partial truth of the tease.
Reflection Questions
  • Where can you accept the partial truth of a criticism while still refuting the conclusion?
  • How does this graciousness model engagement?

She concedes a partial truth in His teasing: 'I don't think Your words entirely false — sometimes an unmarried girl IS attracted to a man, as Ambā was to Śālva.' The honesty is part of her prema; she will not flatter the Lord by denying everything He said. She corrects, she does not contradict for the sake of contradiction.

Ambā, Śālva, and Bhīṣma

In the Mahābhārata (Ādi-parva), Bhīṣma abducts Ambā along with her sisters from a svayaṁvara to marry his half-brother. Ambā reveals she has already given her heart to King Śālva; Bhīṣma releases her, but Śālva refuses her, considering her tarnished. Her grief drives her to long tapas — and in the next life she is reborn as Śikhaṇḍin, the agent of Bhīṣma's death at Kurukṣetra.

Rukmiṇī cites Ambā as a properly attested case of a maiden's heart being given before marriage — the same shape as her own letter to Kṛṣṇa, except that Rukmiṇī's beloved received her, while Ambā's refused. The example shows her doctrinal honesty: she does not pretend such things never happen.

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