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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 3.22.23

शतरूपा महाराज्ञी पारिबर्हान्महाधनान् । दम्पत्यो: पर्यदात्प्रीत्या भूषावास: परिच्छदान् ॥ २३ ॥
śatarūpā mahā-rājñī
[shataroopaa mahaa-raajnee]
pāribarhān mahā-dhanān
[paaribarhaan mahaa-dhanaan]
dampatyoḥ paryadāt prītyā
[dampatyoh paryadaat preetyaa]
bhūṣā-vāsaḥ paricchadān
[bhooshaa-vaasah parichchadaan]
śatarūpā — Empress Śatarūpā mahā-rājñī — the Empress pāribarhān — dowry mahā-dhanān — valuable presents dam-patyoḥ — to the bride and bridegroom paryadāt — gave prītyā — out of affection bhūṣā — ornaments vāsaḥ — clothes paricchadān — articles for household use.
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
śatarūpā mahā-rājñī
śatarūpā
Empress Śatarūpā
mahā-rājñī
the Empress
pāribarhān mahā-dhanān
pāribarhān
dowry
mahā-dhanān
valuable presents
dampatyoḥ paryadāt prītyā
dam-patyoḥ
to the bride and bridegroom
paryadāt
gave
prītyā
out of affection
bhūṣā-vāsaḥ paricchadān
bhūṣā
ornaments
vāsaḥ
clothes
paricchadān
articles for household use.
Empress Śatarūpā lovingly gave most valuable presents, suitable for the occasion, such as jewelry, clothes and household articles, in dowry to the bride and bridegroom.

The custom of giving one’s daughter in charity with a dowry is still current in India. The gifts are given according to the position of the father of the bride. Pāribarhān mahā-dhanān means the dowry which must be awarded to the bridegroom at the time of marriage. Here mahā-dhanān means greatly valuable gifts befitting the dowry of an empress. The words bhūṣā-vāsaḥ paricchadān also appear here. Bhūṣā means “ornaments,” vāsaḥ means “clothing,” and paricchadān means “various household articles.” All things befitting the marriage ceremony of an emperor’s daughter were awarded to Kardama Muni, who was until now observing celibacy as a brahmacārī. The bride, Devahūti, was very richly dressed with ornaments and clothing.

In this way Kardama Muni was married with full opulence to a qualified wife and was endowed with the necessary paraphernalia for household life. In the Vedic way of marriage such a dowry is still given to the bridegroom by the father of the bride; even in poverty-stricken India there are marriages where hundreds and thousands of rupees are spent for a dowry. The dowry system is not illegal, as some have tried to prove. The dowry is a gift given to the daughter by the father to show good will, and it is compulsory. In rare cases where the father is completely unable to give a dowry, it is enjoined that he must at least give a fruit and a flower. As stated in Bhagavad-gītā, God can also be pleased even by a fruit and a flower. When there is financial inability and no question of accumulating a dowry by another means, one can give a fruit and flower for the satisfaction of the bridegroom.

— A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami Prabhupāda
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
The queen Śatarūpā affectionately gave the couple great wealth, and gifts suitable for a wedding, as well as ornaments, clothing and furniture. Pāribarhān means gifts of great value, suitable for a wedding.
The verse treats family affection as a hidden anchor that can quietly steer a life off course. Loving them well may require loving the Lord more, not less.
Reflection Questions
  • What relationship or possession do you currently call 'mine' as though it could not be taken back?
  • What would loving your people while holding them loosely look like in practice?
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