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Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 10.59.44

इत्थं रमापतिमवाप्य पतिं स्‍त्रियस्ता ब्रह्मादयोऽपि न विदु: पदवीं यदीयाम् । भेजुर्मुदाविरतमेधितयानुराग- हासावलोकनवसङ्गमजल्पलज्जा: ॥ ४४ ॥
itthaṁ ramā-patim avāpya patiṁ striyas tā
[ittham ramaa-patim avaapya patim striyas taa]
brahmādayo ’pi na viduḥ padavīṁ yadīyām
[brahmaadayo ’pi na viduh padaveem yadeeyaam]
bhejur mudāviratam edhitayānurāga
[bhejur mudaaviratam edhitayaanuraaga]
hāsāvaloka-nava-saṅgama-jalpa-lajjāḥ
[haasaavaloka-nava-sangama-jalpa-lajjaah]
ittham — in this manner ramā - patim — the Lord of the goddess of fortune avāpya — obtaining patim — as their husband striyaḥ — the women tāḥ — they brahmā - ādayaḥ — Lord Brahmā and other demigods api — even na viduḥ — do not know padavīm — the means of attaining yadīyām — whom bhejuḥ — partook of mudā — with pleasure aviratam — incessantly edhitayā — increasing anurāga — loving attraction hāsa — smiling avaloka — glances nava — ever fresh saṅgama — association jalpa — playful conversations lajjāḥ — and shyness .
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
itthaṁ ramā-patim avāpya patiṁ striyas tā
ittham
in this manner
ramā - patim
the Lord of the goddess of fortune
avāpya
obtaining
patim
as their husband
striyaḥ
the women
tāḥ
they
brahmādayo ’pi na viduḥ padavīṁ yadīyām
brahmā - ādayaḥ
Lord Brahmā and other demigods
api
even
na viduḥ
do not know
padavīm
the means of attaining
yadīyām
whom
bhejur mudāviratam edhitayānurāga
bhejuḥ
partook of
mudā
with pleasure
aviratam
incessantly
edhitayā
increasing
anurāga
loving attraction
hāsāvaloka-nava-saṅgama-jalpa-lajjāḥ
hāsa
smiling
avaloka
glances
nava
ever fresh
saṅgama
association
jalpa
playful conversations
lajjāḥ
and shyness .
  • ramā - patim — Lord of the goddess of fortune (husband of Lakṣmī)
    Compound: Ramā (Lakṣmī) + pati (husband). One of Viṣṇu's standing epithets. The verse opens with His most exalted title — and ends with the queens' shy glances. The juxtaposition is the chapter's poetic key.
  • brahmā - ādayaḥ — Brahmā and others
    Compound: Brahmā + ādi (etc.). Even the highest functionaries — Brahmā, Śiva, Indra — do not know the padavī. Gauḍīyas insist this is not metaphor; it is theological: aiśvarya-jñāna cannot purchase mādhurya-līlā.
  • padavīm — the path, the means of attaining
    From pada (foot, step). Padavī is the trodden way — the path to His feet. Gauḍīyas distinguish jñāna-padavī (cognitive approach) from bhakti-padavī (devotional approach); only the latter reaches.
  • anurāga — loving attraction
    From anu (along, after) + √rañj (to color). Anurāga is colored-along-with — a heart dyed by another's color. In Gauḍīya rasa-theory, anurāga is the deepening stage of prema, beyond bhāva and ordinary love.
  • saṅgama — association, union
    From sam + √gam (to come together). Saṅga/saṅgama is the Vaiṣṇava category of intimate association — sat-saṅga (with devotees) prepares for kṛṣṇa-saṅga (with the Lord). The queens have the latter.
Thus those women obtained as their husband the husband of the goddess of fortune, although even great demigods like Brahmā do not know how to approach Him. With ever-increasing pleasure they experienced loving attraction for Him, exchanged smiling glances with Him and reciprocated with Him in ever-fresh intimacy, replete with joking and feminine shyness.
Viśvanātha Cakravartī Ṭhākura Gauḍīya
Translation
Thus those women obtained as their husband the husband of the goddess of fortune, although even great demigods like Brahmā do not know how to approach Him. With ever-increasing pleasure they experienced loving attraction for Him, exchanged smiling glances with Him and reciprocated with Him in ever-fresh intimacy, replete with joking and feminine shyness.
Commentary

Brahma and others do now know the method of attaining Krsna, who is the husband of those perfect Laksmis. What then to speak of others, and what to speak of directly knowing him? And what to speak of actually attaining him? With continuously increasing joy, they experienced his smiling glances filled with love, bodily contact, exchanges of words and then they displayed bashfulness.

Jīva Gosvāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

Kṛṣṇa was the husband of Rukmiṇī, the full form of Lakṣmī (ramā). The queens, who were aṁśas of Rukmiṇī, attained as their husband this husband of Rukmiṇī, most rare, since he displayed intimate bhāvas and gestures with her. They attained him by their qualifications, not with others’ help. Brahmā, what to speak of others, do not know even the method of attaining him, what to speak of knowing him. And what to speak of attaining him! It is possible to attain him even serving him as a wife. This position as a wife is considered most desirable. Though he associated with them for a long time and constantly, the association was always fresh (nava-saṅgama) because of the happiness experienced each time. They experienced constantly increasing joy (mudā) through smiling glances, then association, then conversations and then shyness, in that order. Or they enjoyed (bhejuḥ) him with joy (mudā), because of anurāga, by their smiling glances, association, conversations and shyness.

Śrīdhara Svāmī Gauḍīya
Commentary

Kṛṣṇa, rare and skillful in love, was the husband of Rukmiṇī. These women (tā) having inconceivable credits attained him as a husband, independently. They were qualified (śtriyaḥ). Brahma and others do not even know his foot, what to speak of knowing or attaining Kṛṣṇa himself. They enjoyed with him constantly because they perceived him as ever fresh (nava-saṅgama). They exchanged loving glances, associated and then spoke shyly. The pleasure continually increased. This shows it was greater than the bliss of Brahman. Brahman’s bliss does not increase (since it never changes). The love however increased at all times, with special sweetness, being ever new, attaining the highest levels.

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The women obtain as husband the husband of Lakṣmī, whom even Brahmā doesn't know how to approach; their pleasure ever-increases as they exchange smiles and glances. The most exalted partner produces ever-increasing pleasure; relationship doesn't decay.
Reflection Questions
  • Where do you assume relationships must decay over time?
  • How does devotion to Kṛṣṇa offer a different curve?

Even Brahmā, the universe's architect, does not know the path to Kṛṣṇa's intimate quarters — but the princesses, His queens, exchange shy glances with Him at breakfast. The verse's miracle is not that the queens reached Him; it is that He let them have what cosmic functionaries cannot find. Mādhurya outranks aiśvarya.

Uddhava's longing

When Uddhava visited Vraja to console the gopīs (SB 10.46-47), he found himself praying to become a blade of grass in Vṛndāvana — because not even the highest minister of Dvārakā could touch what the gopīs naturally possessed. Brahmā himself, at SB 10.14, confessed he did not know the means (padavī) of Kṛṣṇa's intimate līlā.

Verse 44 here gives the queens this same un-findable padavī. Gauḍīyas read it carefully: the Dvārakā queens have access to Bhagavān that Brahmā lacks — though they have a different bhāva from the Vraja gopīs (svakīya vs. parakīya), the same prema-currency is what they hold.

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