Bhakti-rasāmṛta-sindhu .9.26
tatra samaya-vyatikrāntiḥ –
[tatra samaya-vyatikraantih –]
samayāḥ khaṇḍitādīnāṁ priye roṣoditādayaḥ |
[samayaah khanditaadeenaam priye roshoditaadayah |]
puṁsaḥ smitādayaś cātra priyayā tāḍanādiṣu |
[pumsah smitaadayash chaatra priyayaa taadanaadishu |]
eteṣām anyathā-bhāvaḥ samayānāṁ vyatikramaḥ ||26||
[eteshaam anyathaa-bhaavah samayaanaam vyatikramah ||26||]
Blended reading (Sanskrit + English inline)
tatra samaya-vyatikrāntiḥ –
samayāḥ khaṇḍitādīnāṁ priye roṣoditādayaḥ |
puṁsaḥ smitādayaś cātra priyayā tāḍanādiṣu |
eteṣām anyathā-bhāvaḥ samayānāṁ vyatikramaḥ ||26||
The proper conduct for a woman who has been neglected by her lover is to show anger. The proper conduct of the man when hit by flowers thrown by his lover is to smile. For the man and woman to act otherwise is called transgression of normal conduct.
Gauḍīya Ācāryas
Jīva Gosvāmī
Gauḍīya
Durgama-saṅgamanī
Commentary
Samaya means conduct.
My note
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